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• Jos says:

  November 17, 2009 at 8:06 am

  oh this is good, cuz im a shy girl and i love it when a guy pays attention to me.

  whenever u get the chance, u should sit next to her in class.
  compliment her.
  comment on the class
  ask her if she gets the subject so maybe she can tutor u
  ask her wat shes doing this weekend.
  if u see her using her phone, ask her to see it, then u can add ur # or exchange #s.
  if u have a cool phone, show it to her & casually say "hey let me have ur #"
  when u see her out of class stop by and say hi.

  oh! and we love hugs! so wen class ends or wen ur about to depart, ask her for a hug. say something like "hey can i get a hug?" and flash a big smile.

  good luck!!!
• goneoutonalimb.blogspot.com says:

  November 17, 2009 at 8:06 am

  Take the initiative. Talk to her first. You can’t just try to trick her into talking to you - you need to talk to her. And when you do such, don’t try to hit on her real hard, real fast. Don’t go from "hello" to trying to give her tons of compliments, as that will make her feel like she’s under the microscope and it’ll be awkward. Just talk to her like she’s a normal person until she’s comfortable enough to talk as well, then start the subtle flirting.
• closetmonkey says:

  November 17, 2009 at 8:06 am

  tell her a joke or talk about stuff she likes and find out if you have anything in common …. most shy girls are more relaxed when its just 1 on 1. maybe do some research and find out her hobbies and things she likes. an even easier thing is to smile at her when ever she looks at you, and talk to her friends about her and get information that way …… there are lots of things you could do

  good-luck!
• Adriana says:

  November 17, 2009 at 8:06 am

  just go up and start and friendly convo with her it should kinda come natuarly
  awnser mine http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20091103230301AA1vgoZ
• A y m i says:

  November 17, 2009 at 8:06 am

  Dont try to flirt if your not comfortable with it.
  A little sweet tease here and there wont over do it though.
  But if she’s shy I dont think she’d even like being flirted with because she wouldnt know how to react.
  Keep it in her comfort zone until she’s comfortable around you.
  Just talk to her about stuff you’d talk about with anyone, about the class and school to start it off. Then it’ll open many other doors to more interesting conversation.
• babydoll says:

  November 17, 2009 at 8:06 am

  sit somewhere close to her…and say hi and ask abt something related to class. n then start saying hi and talk to her abt other stuff everyday. this way she will be get comfortable with u
• iwin270 says:

  November 17, 2009 at 8:06 am

  Start with Hi and go from there
• JOSH says:

  November 17, 2009 at 8:06 am

  First off think about each thing I say here seriously. You may need to put your own spin on it, but that’s what makes you moral.

  hold the door, like you would any other girl, but maybe try to catch her eyes- discreetly. Just so she knows something may be up…
  girls who are shy don’t get much attention, so the slightest thing may get her thinking.

  find reasons she has to be around you or talk to you.
  catch her talking about a band she likes, or complain about a teacher you guys have.

  ask her a question on homework.

  Just get your foot in the door with her, then add her on fb or something? People who are shy, mostly girls would rather text or talk on the internet. idk why but it works…

  possible other is to get your foot in the door with her friend.(or friend of a friend) Then it will be much easier to talk to your Juliet.

  Now go out there and make Joshs proud!

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