How often do guys fall in love with their female best friend?
- Friday Nov 20,2009 11:28 PM
- By diddy
- In Others
My best friend is a guy, and I have a hinting suspicion he may like me. I’ve always seen the guy/girl best friend situations ending up falling in love in the movies and on tv, but how much of this is true, and how much of it is just fake?
Best Friend, Fall In Love, Falling In Love, Girl Friend, Love Movies, Suspicion
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In my experience most of my male friends have liked me. I always suspect it, and when they tell me it just confirms it. Most of the time I don’t feel the same so once the feelings are out there, if they are truly friends then we remain friends if not we slowly drift apart.
Though many times there’s feelings, I think that as the friendship continues they eventually either die down, or get stronger, but the friendship can always remain. And maybe even evolve into something more in the future.
Ive always wanted the falling in love movie thing to happen to me lol. I’m sure it does happen, don’t know how often though. A lot of relationships do start off as friends so it might happen quite often. Yet there are male and female friendships in which they never like each other and are just great friends. I’ve had a few.
If you like him you could either ask him does he like you or you could wait it out til he tells you own his own. And let him know you feel the same and take your friendship to another level.
If you don’t like him you should wait it out for him to tell you and if/when he does just tell him that your friendship is valuable and you don’t want to risk it so you want to continue being great friends only.
Hopefully whether you guys like each other or not you can continue to be best friends.
Hope this helps : )
only drawback is that if it doesnt work you and him will never be the same, u two mite even stop talking
always true
There is no fate but what we make.
Guy/girl best friend situations are the best kind of relationships to be in but they are fragile. The reason why they are so good is because you know the person really well. The person is really dependable and someone who you do have a good time with. Plus you care about him a lot. Deep down you know that the guy who you do look for in a relationship is really your best friend. All relationships end up with the guy and girl considering each other as best friends.
You may end up losing your friend if you break up with him. This is true. But it’s only true if you make it true. Do your best to patch things up with him if you two break up.
If you think he likes you ask him straight out. It won’t hurt to know. But before you do you should ask yourself if you like him?
They say love is just friendship caught on fire. I’d probably hint to see if he does. I’m a guy and have had many girl best friends but never felt feelings for them even tough they tought I did. So you may also be mistaken. But just ask. They asked me and I said no. It didn’t change anything at all.
your realtionship might turn out awkward either way..
if you break up or if one of you doesnt like the other,
follow your heart, it will find a way to point you in the right direction, god is watching out for you and everything happens for a reason =]
Best of Luck <33
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