How important do you think the way you raise your child as a baby, is to he or her being a good adult?
- Monday Dec 7,2009 07:03 PM
- By diddy
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If you understood that hah.
How important do you think loving and properly looking after your baby up until the age of two? What kind of things will it do to your child as an adult if you neglect them?
Just curious as to just how important it is to give our babies as much love as possible.
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Studies show that until the age of 7 it doesn’t really pay a toll…I agree and disagree to some extent.
I agree to the extent that a child could live with neglectful parents and then be adpted by a loving family at 7 and turn out to be a loving person, or they are allowed to get away with anything but then the parents realise and put rules down and they learn to obey those rules. But they learn so much at a young age. Spending as much time as possible with them is crutial fro their development.
I’ll see if I can find a link.
very important.. i wouldnt want my kids growin up to be some of the ignorant brats that run around now a days.. immoralistic.. everything that I was never raised to be … i got in to a shetload of trouble but because of my family I didn’t go so far as to demoralize myself..
I am going to school right now for my asos. in psyc so i have taken a lot of classes on development. It is sooo important that children are raised in a loving and nurturing enviroment. Things like spanking, labeling, yelling or saying things like shut up have big negative effects on the type of teen then adult they grow up to be. As a mother i was shocked when reading how studies have shown that children who were not nurtured between birth to 12 were more likely to do drugs, have low self esteem and many other seriouse problems. So it is very important.
The instinct of whether you can trust another human being or not is often developed in the early years. If a child learns not to trust others that can be disastrous to them as an adult. Imagine not being able to trust your friends, your romantic interests. Learning that there are safe places where people love you is one of the most basic needs of human beings. While this can be overcome, it’s often very difficult and involves a lot of heartbreak along the way.
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