How can I prevent my co-workers and neighbors from finding out I’m an involuntary virgin?
- Wednesday Dec 23,2009 02:27 AM
- By diddy
- In Others
I’m a 26 year old involuntary virgin for life. Recently, while working, I’ve encountered a lot of co-workers who want to talk about sex and how recently everyone has had it? Many people mention that they had had it within the last few days or weeks. I felt awkward, and remained quiet on the matter. How can I pretend to be a non-virgin without sounding too dishonest?
I’m ugly and poor so actually getting a girlfriend is out of the question. Thanks.
Co Workers, Few Days, Getting A Girlfriend, Lot, Neighbors, Question Thanks, Talk About Sex, Talk Sex, Ugly, Virgin
7 Comments
aww dont gun urself lik that
money an looks arnt what all women want.
they like confidence.(:
What’s wrong with just staying quiet on the matter? If you MUST say something, then say it’s been a long while (not a lie, since it’s been forever) and that you really miss it (also not a lie since you want to, right?).
Ugly and poor? I GUARANTEE that there’s a girl out there who thinks the same thing about herself and is just waiting for you to find her.
Just say its been a while and you’re too busy with work and your career lately?
Btw not a good attitude to have - focus less on your imperfections; life happens when you don’t care and just smile!
Uh, #1, why the hell do you care what everyone thinks, and #2, tell them you don’t like talking about intimate stuff with coworkers.
Plus, that kind of talk can easily lead to rumors, gossip, and trouble at work.
say you are waiting until marriage, they might not show it but they will respect you more
Say you’re waiting for marriage.
For starters "Those who judge don’t matter and those who matter don’t judge". NOw for an answer if you stay quiet they may think you have some healthy boundaries cause this is a work place not a party with intimate friends. No one with self respect shares that information with co workers. It’s not office chatter and I would know. This is not stand around the water cooler therapy. A real man doesn’t talk about who he has done, what he as/ is doing or who he wants to bang. A real man because of his privacy and maturity keeps his mouth shut. When women see that They become more interested cause they notice he is respectful of his partners and of himself. (It doesn’t occur to them you might be virgin) So stay as you are mature, respectful of self and others with healthy clear boundaries. If anyone asks you may ask WHY it’s so important to THEM to know when and where you put your genitals. It’s truly non of their business. The Powers that be have the right person in place for you. Be patient.
Recent Posts
Recent Comments
Leave a reply